The sexual Revolution has lessened the stigma around edge play, thanks to the mainstream media and the internet. Both have educated people on the subject and thus sparked lots of interest, especially among thrill seekers. Some of us tend to get bored by the same old routine; others crave something exciting and taboo, while others like to push boundaries. If you’re one of those people, we got two words for you: Edge Play.

If you and your partner get struck by a mischievous and naughty mood, you can count on edge play to enhance your sexual intensity. Edge play has the perfect elements to spice up your sex life. However, it is not for the faint-hearted. This activity brings you to the edge of the darkest and deepest parts of the psyche, the places where few are willing to tramp.

This erotic and intense walk to the dark side is for those who want something more electrifying. It is all about taking your sexual experience to the edge of your psychological limits.

Three Fundamentals to Edge Play

The first element is S&M play which is a sexual role play. This activity often results in physical and psychological violence. Some common elements of this role play include punching, smacking, rough play, gunplay, and more.

The first element is S&M play which is a sexual role play. This activity often results in physical and psychological violence. Some common elements of this role-play include punching, smacking, rough play, gunplay, and more.

The second element is literal. It refers to playing with sharp objects such as swords or knives.

The last element is figurative, where one partner challenges their partner’s limits. Both partners engage in what they consider ‘’edgy’’. However, it takes place between consenting adults. That is why there is a need for a specified safe word and open communication.

Sex life can get listless and monotonous with time. It often leads to pent-up sexual frustrations that are unhealthy for the success of any marriage. One way to spice up your sex life is to fulfill sexual fantasies. This helps couples to channel what they consider sexually attractive and in the process, they regain the lost libido.

There are different ways to keep your sex life fresh and spicy. It all starts with open communication with your partner. Having a dialogue about what you think could improve the situation is a good starting point. The conversation should be held free of accusations and in a relaxed environment.

Adding a dash of ‘’aww’’ to the next romp can be easier than you thought. We got some inspiration from certified sex experts to help you brighten your hump day. With these edge play tips, you’ll get that ~spark~ again. Take some notes now!

Try Edge Play to Keep Things Fresh

Edge Play has plenty of benefits, especially for couples who know each other. This type of play exposes your partner’s personality. It increases the level of closeness and trust toward each other. Most importantly, it re-ignites the feeling of adventure and newness. There are also some physical benefits to it. The fear and excitement induced during play cause the body to release endorphins, adrenaline, and norepinephrine.

These chemicals fight depression and help relieve stress, which gives one a sense of well-being, fulfillment, and happiness.

Most of the cultural lore surrounding BDSM stems from edge play. But it is important to mention that edge play is about the illusion of danger in an environment of control and safety. Couples should strike a balance between what they find to be edgy and safe. The sexual experiences should be enjoyable and affirming, this kind of play is about freedom.

So What is Edge Play?

Edge Play is a complex term to define. Mainly because we all have different boundaries, limits, and interests. It refers to sexual play on the edge of what a partner can bear. For this to happen, there needs to be trust between both partners. Simply put, edge play is subjective. It involves consensually pushing your partner’s limits or boundaries.

Examples of Edge Play

Some of the common themes in edge play include fear of death, fear of sexual assault/harassment, fear of public humiliation, germophobia, and pain tolerance. Other additional kinks include total power exchange, blood play, breath play, consensual non-consent, and water sports. Of course, this varies with the individual.

Keep this in Mind!

Some forms of play call for extensive negotiation and preparation between partners, in addition to providing aftercare, first aid, creating a safety plan, and giving affection.

What you need to know

Before getting into edge play, you need to acknowledge that it is part of practicing risk-aware consensual kink (RACK). Both partners need to know that it is dangerous. But to some people, autonomy and freedom are more important than safety. That is why we advocate for risk-aware consensual kinks. Some key elements that both partners need include respect, empathy, and the willingness to admit when one is wrong.

This kind of play is more about understanding the type of play one is engaging in and knowing the subject. Having advanced skills and prior practice is not the epitome.

Best Practices for Edge Play

It starts with questioning one’s intentions. Interrogate why you want to play with your partner’s edge. It allows you to examine whether this fits within your system of ethics. Partners need information and education on the type of play they choose, after which negotiations are held.

Couples also need to agree on an appropriate safe word to use. Both doms and subs ought to consider each other’s desires, feelings, and boundaries. But the most important qualities are communication, attunement, and intuition.

Take it Seriously and Slowly!

Newcomers who are interested in edge play need to acquire the necessary technical skills. For instance, knife play techniques or rope-tying procedures are a must. However, such skills are cultivated with time. They are also built in individual relationships.

Above all, don’t be surprised when you get nervous. It’s normal, especially when your partner is pushing your edge. Or when playing with your partner’s limits. It is just as rewarding as it can be overwhelming. Just listen to your gut instincts and give them the respect it calls for. So dive into it and explore your edge. Taking care to ensure that your partner is on the same page. Also, you need to be honest if you’re not ready. Have a nice romp! Remember to keep it fun and playful.