Pegging is such a turn-on for me and the women who do it. See why we love it so much.
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About 46% of people in relationships say that they want to spice things up in the bedroom. There are so many different ways that you can do this that it can get quite overwhelming and your list can become pretty long.

So you have to first think about what you want to try. Do you want to add toys to the bedroom? Do you have fantasies?

Is there a specific sexual practice that you want to try and have not yet had a chance to? If that’s the case, you will want to add pegging to your list.

You may have heard of this term, or you may have never heard of it before. However, it is a sexual kink that adds a lot of fun to the bedroom. Not only that but there are many other reasons to try it as well.

But what is pegging? How do you do it and where do you even start?

In this guide, we will walk you through everything you need to know about pegging which can make your sex lives a bit better in the bedroom. It may even become your favorite thing.

So what are you waiting for? It’s time to start reading.

What Is Pegging?

Simply put, pegging (also known as pegged) is when a woman puts on a strap-on dildo to penetrate her partner anally. This is often only referred to in reserved to describe a sexual act between a heterosexual couple, or a man and a woman.

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Basically, pegging is a way to switch around the traditional gender roles so that the woman is the one penetrating and the man is not. Although this term is technically reserved for heterosexual couples, anyone can technically do it. Many lesbians always keep their strap on’s with them so that they can penetrate their partners.

There is no limiting who can and cannot be pegged. However, the word was created traditionally to only refer to a woman with a vagina and a man with a penis. In terms of this article, that is how we will discuss it.

Where It Gets Its Name

The name basically came from readers of Dan Savage’s “savage love” sex advice column. It is a simple term for female-on-male heterosexual anal sex.

The term is to separate the idea of anal sex being an act for both gay men as well as male to female. Instead, it creates a separate term for allowing anal sex to be done by a female to a male.

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Why You Should Try Pegging

Now that you know what pegging is, you may be on the fence about actually trying it. Why should you?

If you want to learn a few reasons why people love pegging and white people try it, here are four reasons.

Reverse Gender Roles

One of the main reasons that people try pegging is because it reverses traditional gender roles. The man is no longer the one doing the penetration, and the power is given to the female to penetrate. Personally, the power of penetration has always been one of the main aspects of hegemonic masculinity.

That means that when a woman instead has the power, this is an emasculating experience and gives more power to the woman. Technically, this can be seen as a very feminist act.

With all of that said, pegging does not need to be seen as making penetration a dominant act. A lot of how people have sex and who is dominant depends on how you frame your mind around the act. That means although the woman is penetrating, that does not need to be the dominant act in the sexual experience.

Again, sex is different for everyone and how you view pegging is also going to be different for each and every person.

Better Communication

Because we are used to specific things in the bedroom that have to do with our traditional gender roles, pegging reverses this. This means that both partners are probably not used to carrying a different role in the bedroom. That means you have to communicate.

You will need to communicate what you like and what you were doing, and your partner also needs to communicate how they like it as well as what is going on in their mind during it. This is especially true during the first time. You need to get comfortable because of the difference in the roles, and the only way to do that is to communicate.

When you get better at communicating in the bedroom, this can actually spill over into your communication as a whole.

Try Something New

As we mentioned before, almost half of people in relationships want to spice up their sex lives. While you can do this in many different ways, one of the ways is to try pegging.

Trying something new can really add excitement to the bedroom as well as improve communication and your relationship as a whole. Not to mention, it can really improve our physical and mental health when we add something into the mix.

While you may want to try adding more sex toys or different positions, why not try pegging as something new as well to throw into the mix? Before you do, just make sure that you have the right conversation with your partner first.

Men May Like It

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Surprisingly, many men may actually like the act of pegging. Although they may not know it before they start, it may be something that they realize throughout the process.

Why is this? The prostate gland in the anal canal for sure actually can be massaged in a correct way that leads to an amazing orgasm. This area can potentially be massaged without any other work during pegging.

It is the area right under the perineum between the testicles and the anus.

Although this is true biologically, some men may not be into the idea of it. It is always a good idea to discuss this with your partner before trying it to make sure that you are on the same page.

How to Safely Try Pegging

The last thing you want to do is aggressively start pegging without talking to your partner. This can be extremely damaging and is not consensual. Not to mention that can also turn someone off to the idea of trying something new in the future.

However, there is a way to do it safely and with consent from your partner. Follow the steps to make pegging the best experience you can.

Talk First

If you have been thinking about bringing this up to your partner, it is a great conversation to introduce slowly in order to gauge your partner’s response. You also want to keep it open-ended so that they have a say as well.

Go Slow and Communicate

To make the best out of your experience, you want to make sure you communicate with your partner. You also want to make sure you start slow so that you can gauge how your partner is doing and if you need to change anything.

You also want to make sure that you use plenty of lubrication because the anus is not self-lubricating. Without the correct amount of lubrication, tissue can tear. Not only will lubrication add a safety component to the sexual experience, but it will also make it more enjoyable.

This is why it is essential to start slow and communicate with your partner.

Throughout the process, you may end up needing to add lubrication. This is why it is essential to talk to your partner because they can tell you what they need. This is completely normal.

F.A.Q.s About Pegging

You may have some remaining questions about packing. Here are some common questions and answers.

Is Pegging Safe?

Yes. Pegging is safe and can be enjoyable as long as you follow our advice.

Am I gay if I like pegging?

No, just because you enjoy being pegged by your wife or girlfriend does not mean your are gay.

How Can I Try Pegging?

You should first have a conversation with your partner. Then you can begin slowly while communicating to make sure that you are both enjoying it.

Will I Like Pegging?

Everyone is different. That means you may not like it, or you may like it, but you will not know until you try.

Will I Need Lubrication?

Always. You should always use lubrication during pegging.

What Is the Point of Pegging?

Pegging is a way to spice things up in the bedroom. It is trying something new to see if you enjoy it.

Trying Pegging

If you are someone who is constantly trying to find something new for the bedroom, you should definitely add trying pegging to the list.

Not only will it spice things up in the bedroom, but it will also spice things up in your entire relationship. It will also help you practice communication, may make you feel empowered as a woman, or give the power to your partner as a woman, and you both may find that you actually like it.

If you find this article interesting, and want to learn other ways to spice things up in the bedroom, you should check out all of our blog posts. There is advice on many different things including the bedroom, women’s empowerment, and more.

Happy reading, and good luck in the bedroom!

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  • Jessica Fox

    Jessica is a seasoned blog writer with over 15 years of experience living and exploring a diverse range of kinks. Her passion for writing is matched only by her enthusiasm for the lifestyle, which she brings to life through her engaging and insightful content. Jessica's deep understanding and personal involvement in the kink community have made her a respected voice in the field. Her blog offers a unique blend of personal anecdotes, thoughtful commentary, and practical advice, making it a go-to resource for those interested in learning more about the world of kink from someone who has not only observed but also actively participated in its many facets.

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