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Best Gay Bars & Bathhouses In Scottsdale

June 17, 2026 ยท 3 min read

Scottsdale sits about 15 to 20 minutes east of Phoenix's most concentrated LGBTQ+ nightlife, and that proximity defines how locals actually use the scene. While Scottsdale doesn't have a traditional gayborhood, Old Town is the hub for LGBTQ+ nightlife โ€” though even that anchor is in flux. For anything beyond a single bar, Scottsdale residents drive west into Phoenix, and that drive is short enough that most people don't think twice about it.

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The Scottsdale LGBTQ+ Scene

About 15 minutes west of Old Town Scottsdale lies Phoenix's Melrose District "gayborhood," which offers a collection of LGBTQ+ businesses and clubs. For gay travelers, the Melrose District runs along 7th Avenue between Camelback and Indian School โ€” and that strip is where most of the Valley's purpose-built queer venues are clustered. Phoenix's Melrose District is the center of its gay scene; you'll find one gay bar after another, so it's pretty easy to hop from one place to another. Scottsdale itself has historically had one dedicated LGBTQ+ bar, and Phoenix fills in everything else โ€” leather bars, bathhouses, country dancing, Latin clubs, and lesbian-owned spaces that don't exist in the eastern suburbs.

Top Gay Bars & Bathhouses for Scottsdale Locals

BS West Scottsdale

Type: Gay bar / Dance club / Drag venue

Location: 7125 E. 5th Ave. Rear, Scottsdale, AZ 85251

Features: Established in 1988, BS West remains Scottsdale's exclusive 21+ LGBT bar and nightclub, right in the middle of Old Town Scottsdale. It runs two bars, two levels, two patios, two VIP lounges, a flat-screen-equipped dance floor, and go-go boys. Note: Yelp listed this venue as closed as of early 2026 โ€” verify current status before visiting by checking their social media or calling ahead.

Website: https://www.bswest.com

Stacy's @ Melrose

Type: Gay bar / Drag venue / Mixed queer bar

Location: 4343 N. 7th Ave., Phoenix, AZ 85013 โ€” approx. 20 min from Scottsdale

Features: Recently named Best Gay/Lesbian Bar in Phoenix Magazine's 2026 Best of the Valley, Stacy's anchors the Melrose District with a nightly programming calendar โ€” the weekly Sunday drag brunch hosts high-energy performances with live music, while weeknights run karaoke, goth night, and DJ sets that draw a broad cross-section of the queer community.

Website: https://www.stacysatmelrose.com

Boycott Bar

Type: Gay bar / Lesbian-owned queer bar

Location: 4301 N. 7th Ave., Phoenix, AZ 85013 โ€” approx. 20 min from Scottsdale

Features: Since 2004, owner Audrey has built Boycott Bar as a pillar in the gay community โ€” Arizona's last lesbian-owned bar and one of the only Latina-led queer venues in the country. High energy, it features drag shows, ladies' nights, Latin dance nights, and DJ sets.

Website: https://www.boycottbarphx.com

Charlie's Phoenix

Type: Gay bar / Country-western dance bar

Location: 727 W. Camelback Rd., Phoenix, AZ 85013 โ€” approx. 25 min from Scottsdale

Features: Charlie's Phoenix is the legendary country-western gay bar at 727 W. Camelback Road that has been running since 1984, with country dancing, drag shows, line dancing lessons, and a spacious dance floor. There is genuinely no equivalent in the metro โ€” it draws regulars from across the Valley on Wednesday and Saturday nights in particular.

Nu Towne Saloon

Type: Gay bar / Dive bar

Location: 1028 E. Pierce St., Phoenix, AZ 85006 โ€” approx. 25 min from Scottsdale

Features: Opened in 1971, Nu Towne Saloon is the Valley's oldest gay bar, recognizable by the Eiffel Tower replica atop the building; it features a patio, pool tables, karaoke, and open-mic comedy.

FLEXspas Phoenix

Type: Gay bathhouse / Men's private club

Location: 1517 S. Black Canyon Hwy., Phoenix, AZ 85009 โ€” approx. 30 min from Scottsdale

Features: FLEX Spas Phoenix is a private gay men's club with amenities

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