Oftentimes sissies who are just starting out their sissification journey, their first question to me is, can we become a sissy? generally, it is older married or divorced sissies who are just now starting to explore this new life.
Their major concerns revolve around them looking younger and whether Doms or Tops would be interested in them at all. In my personal opinion, older submissives are much better to train and own as a Dom than younger submissives because they have a sense of emotional maturity, they know what they want and they also have a better knack for the kind of people that they want to surround themselves with.
This helps in training them at a much quicker pace than younger sissies. I do understand that how they look definitely does play a part in them being desired, but I always say that true Doms don’t put a lot of weightage on the way you are looking but the way you are performing and serving them as a sub.
So generally, in that particular scenario, the sissification training goes in such a way that the first thing is to get their confidence back up and also to train their psyche a lot more than their physical self because since they are more emotionally mature, it is going to be much more complicated to break them psychologically, but once they do because of that same exact emotional maturity they are going to be much more loyal than the young one.
Generally, since they are older they have more money which means much better access to clothes, heels, toys and much more. This definitely does affect their training in a positive manner, but you have to understand as a Dom that their thought process is a lot different than the other younger sissy submissives so you need to be more patient and accommodating of their needs, especially if they are married or partnered.
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Sissification Stories
So I posted this question here on WOK in a discussion group for “Sissification” and this is the replies I got.
-For sissies: What are your major urges as a sissy? What are your goals? Why do you feel this is something you need to pursue?
-For sissy admirers: What is it about sissification that draws you to sissies and wanting to sissify? Why do you think you feel strongly about the fetish even though you aren’t actually the one being sissified?
What I am hoping to do with these threads is make us all think a little deeper about our fetishes (sissification in particular) and ourselves in general. Hopefully we will realize things that we haven’t about ourselves and become enlightened by others.
25 Responses
SometimesSarah
My major urges as a sissy surround dressing up and being as girly and feminine as possible. Often this brings me a great sexual arousal, but just as often it just feels more “right.” The major urge and goal for me is the dressing.
Having Dom/sub sexual encounters don’t necessarily go hand in hand with being a sissy and dressing up for me, but when I’m so sexually aroused because of it, it can certainly lead that way. Being submissive isn’t necessarily part of my sissy urges either, but it’s also something I get gratification from, so they can certainly happen at the same time.
My goals are just to have fun and enjoy life. Being a sissy makes me happy and is a ton of fun for me, especially when it gets sexual. I’m not really looking to be locked in chastity for any long period of time, or serve a Mistress 24/7.
It’s fun for me to do around the house and on the weekends. If I was with another sissy, or someone more into me being a sissy, I could see it developing to more often. I need to do it because it feels right, it’s a part of me that needs to be expressed. When I don’t get to express my sissy side, it gets pent up and frustrating. I need to get my sissy on every once and a while.
PrincessLiberty
First, thanks for being the first person to share!! I was hoping we’d get some more responses but maybe yours will spark some:) your name makes a lot more sense to me now, if I am understanding it right lol. But yeah, I totally understand the things you said, especially at the end: “I need to do it because it feels right, it’s a part of me that needs to be expressed”….
I talk to a lot of sissies and always encourage them to just be who they are. I find that many go through periods of “giving in” to the feelings and then periods of shame where they end up throwing out all their sissy supplies. This makes me sad. No one should have to be ashamed of who they are.
But I know that in this world, a man is supposed to be “manly” and not “womanly” and I know they have to deal with a lot of conflicting emotions due to that. I try to get them to a point where they feel comfortable just being themselves, and thus, a “liberation” takes place!!!
I am very happy for you that you are comfortable with and embrace who you are. It takes a lot of strength. Thanks so much for replying and triggering what I hope will be a thoughtful discussion!!!
Talia_cassini
I fall into the Sissy admirer category and I really find myself attracted to the contrasts. I’m not into forced sissification myself, but I enjoy the service aspect and sensual sides of playing with a sweet sissy. There is something which I find incredibly pleasing about the contrasts present sissys.
The softness which covers the sometimes harder edges. Theres a sensuality about playing with a sissy in a calm comfortable environment which just isn’t there with your average guy. I’m not sure why exactly that is. Its hard to put into words why exactly its so appealing, but it is on a deep level.
Bonitas_dog
It’s fairly simple for me, i think. As a perceived Man it is truly humiliating to be ridiculed and have my facade of masculinity torn away… stripped, removed, beaten out of me.
The idea that i have no business ‘pretending’ to be a real Man but instead made into a sissy (or worse) is a heady and intoxicating thing for me, personally. Of course the maid/servant (also, ‘or worse’) makes it even more exciting.
PrincessLiberty
I see….so there seem to be two camps. One is more the realm of “forced” sissification which is humiliating, degrading, etc, a real challenge to one’s manhood. The other would be those who feel inside that they are feminine and enjoy showing that outwardly by wearing women’s clothing or undergarments or lingerie.
I have been repressing these feelings for a very long time, CDing(strictly in the closet) in my mothers and sisters panties and such when I was little(10-12) yrs old through my teen years I suppressed the urges, in my early 20s( while I was in the Marines),the urges and fantasies started up)
I started buying panties and bras secretly ,using small vibes and dildos on off through the years…..I started getting sissy urges and dressing more in my 40s -50s buying lingerie, stockings, skirts, dresses, shoes (the slutier the better),then going through many purges……
I have the fantasies of being used as a sissy for the amusement/entertainment for Women to be “forced bi” to be used by men, possibly act the cuckold for someone, be used as a sissy maid, turned out as a sissy party gurl…
I haven’t dressed in 5 yrs since I gained so much weight, I just didn’t feel good about dressing….I have in the last year found a Mistress, who has used me once for anal and urethral fun and we have discussed dressing me and using me as her sissy, my only fear is that once I start with “forced bi” oral and anal is that I may enjoy sissification too much! Dana
CapHillKelly
As I grew up, a “sissy” was less fetish, and more about inate behavior. With my family, being a femme boy was not acceptable and I had to maintain a fascade of uber-masculinity even though I yearned to wear dresses and be pretty.
Today allowing my self to sissify means that I am reclaiming the feminity that I was long denied. I wish there were a place in society for femme men to be accepted as normal. I also think we would have less violence if more men were to embrace their feminity.
My goal is to accept the feminity within me and to gradually become more woman-like with each day. My fantasy is to find someone who loves that feminity in me and encourages it.
sissy-b
I too hid my desire to be a sissy for 40 years, from myself, Wife, E/everyone. Was unable to keep it hidden, though, and found acceptance from Wife at least, though She requires i act and look masculine when in public.
For decades, i have served Her and found satisfaction in becoming more in touch with my true self. While cross dressing was a large turn on at first, it has gradually faded away as what i find to be most enchanting in expressing my sissy self is humility and service.
When i can be in the background, making dinner or cleaning or providing other domestic device and Wife is out with Friends having a good time, or watching TV while i serve Her dinner, i am in sissy heaven.
She holds the key to my chastity device and is the only one allowed to initiate intimacy, i am strictly proscribed as to my my free time and activity, for example my time online is limited to an hour every other day, but having surrendered control and being subject to Her absolute authority in social, sexual, discipline and financial matters is liberating to my soul.
Yes, the is a lot of work i do, all of the domestic tasks and whatever else i am told to do, but there is no responsibility for decision making or being in charge, that hard stuff is left to Wife, the leader in this marriage. When my surrender was accepted, and my obedience pledged, it was a sissy’s dream come true.
DallasSissy
Hi everybody!!!! Im so glad i came back to this site at this point in my life. Im in such a turmoil. Let me explain. For years I’ve had homosexual urges. At first I satisfied myself with porn because i was afraid to tell anyone.
Eventually i did some experiments. Turns out i enjoy being with men and women. Recently I began crossdressing. Not very much and never in public. I have a very new relationship with an open minded woman who accepts me and all of my fantasies.
My worry is that we cannot survive if she is not turned on in the slightest manner by the thing that turns me on the most, encouraged sissification and forced bisexuality.
sissymichelle
My urge is to be totally feminized and be in service to Domme who pimps me out to men so that i can suck their cocks or be fucked in my sissy pussy.
The biggest thrill would be to be forced to do this in front of my Mistress. The urge to be submissive and serve Dominant Men and Women, particularly Black Superiors is overwhelming.
robyn56
I’ve been attracted to the feminine clothing and especially undergarments for as long as I can
Recall. I grew up in my formative years when pantyhose were just becoming a big thing and I was fascinated by them. It became a strong fetish.
I was also extremely shy of girls because of a family that was judgemental and would have teased me immensely if I had admitted to liking any particular girl. I felt inferior around girls and didn’t think a girl could like me unless there was something in it for her.
So each night I would go to sleep imagining that some girl I liked at the time would take me to her room, make me put her clothes on and tease me. This felt very sexually exciting and formed the basis for my current desire to be dressed by my wife as her maid and ordered about to do chores and even do her. I like the humiliation of being under her control this way and the personal reward of being able to do things for her as my own justification of being worthy of her affection.
Sissytobe
What drew me to being a sissy was a love for dressing up and being feminine. It started when I was young discovering women’s clothes and became something of a stress reliever growing up. While no one aside from my family knew of it I was that kid during my years of school teased and harassed over and over by others in school so I would always wish I was someone completely different than myself to escape it.
Since I would have a couple hours after school to myself in the house would always use it to dress up. As I got older it has become something more than just a fad and more a part of me. As the internet became more popular I would always search about cross dressing and would run across sites speaking of feminization and other related topics and I just kept hoping to meet someone that would do that to me. Still have yet to meet that lady but hope iit happens at some point.
DakotaVulpine
For me, being a sissy just feels like my destiny. Being feminine and submissive to men feels right. And it’s awful that I don’t feel comfortable telling those around me and being forced to live a lie.
When I’m actually with a man though, everything feels so right. With every hypno session I go through I just feel the real me get closer to the surface.
Cissyslave
To me, it’s all about control. I believe that women are the superior sex, and that they should dominate all aspects of my life. By becoming a sissy, I’m giving up my manhood to honor, serve, and obey them.
Since I am no longer a “man”, their pleasure is the only thing I need to concern myself with. My penis is unimportant, therefore locking it away is the inspiration I need to better serve my mistress(in my mind). The dilemma I face is that my mistress desires intercourse, which goes against my way of thinking.
sissy-regina
As a sissy this has really been kinda a mental game i’ve played with myself to work towards realizing i’m a trans girl. but i’m still into it tho mostly the draw coming from the submissive nature of being a sissy.
The fantasy of “giving someone the power to change your gender” is a deep level of submission and the fact that i actually wanna change it makes the process of transition just a bit more fun 🙂 also it’s nice to have a kinky thing that draws my sexuality away from my boi clit and towards more feminine things
KennethWood777
I find it very relaxing to change into female outfit. That can be from a range of outfits: a dress, a frock, a lingerie nightie. I like to put on some shoes, my wig, and if I have time, apply some make up. I enjoy listening to some music, or watching a film, wearing my outfit.
I also enjoying looking at ranges of nice feminine outfits, eg, within a fashion magazine, and imaging myself in one or more of the outfits.
On the fetish side, I love forced sissificationbeing spanked and experiencing CBT. I enjoy humiliation. I have a smaller than average sissy clit and enjoy wearing a chastity device.
On the sexual side, I do like to give oral sex and experience anal sex, from either a lady or a man. My dress preference then is a wear a gymslip or cheerleader outfit. I do love to experience the business like thrusts of a man or women, causing me to pre-cum within my chastity device. I am looking forward to experiencing a sissygasm…
I have enjoyed wearing panties for a very long time. That eventually led to wearing bra’s and nylons under my clothes.
Then one day, I was shopping for cute panties and bras when I noticed a silky night gown. I bought it and slept in it often.
I work as a mechanic and I often work alone. One day I dared myself to wear my panties and a bra with a blouse, garter belt and stockings under my coveralls. I found it absolutely exciting, especially when I needed to talk to a woman. I would wonder what she would think and or do if she knew that I was wearing woman’s clothing underneath my work clothes. I always hoped that she would be playful and not disgusted.
I quite often had to travel for my job without any advanced notice. I would drive hours to the job and almost always, I would stop at a store just to buy a handful of woman’s clothing to wear. Often I would change while driving(in the dark) or stop somewhere to change, usually a secluded road somewhere in the open but no body to be seen.
Something about wearing woman’s clothing is exiting for me. I only wear my guy clothes in public. When at home, the pants and t shirt come off and I pick thru my collection for a cute bra, panties,top, and a skirt or dress to wear until I leave for work the next day.
This is my biggest fetish and it’s one I wish to share with a woman. It’s a turn on for me that a woman knows I’m wearing woman’s clothing and I hope she enjoys being involved also.
Sissy_Lisa_Ann
My urges as a sissy are to dress act and become as feminine as possible. These lead to my ultimate goal which goes beyond a sissy however. I would love to transition to female or fulltime sissy. I have felt the need to pursue this since I was around 8 years old when I started dressing.
Fem4Feminize4BBC
Idk just something about being dressed as a female and being slutted out to big black cocks turns me on. I’ve been a dom for years on years and always been in control. But now I want a woman to feminize me and take my power away and then make me the slut I’ve always wanted to be.
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